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The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others.....

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

TABLE MANNERS


TABLE MANNERS



Both hands must be above the table at the same time. They cannot be below the table even if they are together.


Remember to always say PLEASE and THANK YOU.


If you've served your own portion, it is considered good manners to finish everything on your plate before asking for more.


Do not put ice in your wine. At restaurants, wine is served at the temperature at which it is meant to be enjoyed.


After you have finished eating, place the cutlery parallel together, vertically at the center of your plate so the waiter will know to take away your plate.


While you are still eating your meal, place the cutlery to the sides of your plate at 4:00 and 8:00, opposite sides of the plate, signifying to the waiter that you wish to keep your plate.


To communicate that you want more wine, simply finish your glass, but to signify that you have had enough to drink, leave some wine in your glass.


When dining at another's residence, do not use salt or pepper. This is an insult to the person who cooked the meal and is interpreted as "You did not get it right."

Monday, December 29, 2008

ETIQUETTES


Business Etiquette


Powerful First Impression
Make your first 10 words count: “Thank you for taking the time to meet with me”, “It’s a pleasure tofinally meet you Mr. X”, “Denise thank you for your interest in getting together”, “Juan, thank you forsuggesting we meet today”, “It’s great seeing you again”

Tune into others: Making eye contact, always wear a smile·

Your expressions demonstrate the confidence you have in yourself·

Be vibrant, be confident and people will respond positively·

Walk with a purpose·Put some bounce into your step.·

Move with vigor and vitality·Most of us enjoy being around high-energy people·

Be Impeccably Groomed

Keep your hair neat and in a fashion that flatters the shape of your face·

Wear jewelry appropriately to the event and situation·shoes should be well maintained


MEN


Use the one finger test when buying shirts. Make sure a shirt fits properly by placing your indexfinger between the collar and your neck. If there is enough room to slip your finger comfortable into thespace, you are not only assured of an excellent fit, you would also feel less compelled to unbutton the topbutton

Know that most women like to see a little leg, but not when you are wearing trousers. Wear socksthat cover your calves when seated.


WOMEN


Should be aware of poor impression made by hosiery with runners. Always keep an extra pairof stockings with you when going to an important event



Business Greetings and Introduction


Stand up

Make eye contact·

Smile·

Say your name·

Shake hands


MEN


  • Don’t wait for a woman to initiate a handshake-Always offer a woman your full hand in a handshake.
  • Forget the business of shaking fingers.
  • -Avoid my hand over your hand handshake as this could be interpreted as a subtle form of one-upmanship


WOMEN

  • Always offer a complete and firm handshakeShake hands with customers and clients, even when you meet them outside the work place-
  • Avoid wearing an oversized ring on the right hand it can hinder others from giving you a firmhandshake
  • Never stay behind the desk when meeting or greeting someone. When shaking hands, the onlything that should be between the two of you is space-
  • Shake hands at both the beginning and at the end of a meeting

Friday, December 26, 2008

WRITING TOPICS


WRITING


1. EDUCATION TO CHILDREN IS NOT ACCSESSIBLE IN THE RURAL ARES OF A DEVELOPING COUNTRY.SOME PEOPLE ARE OF AN OPINION THAT MORE TEACHERS AND BOOKS SHOULD BE PROVIDED WHILE OTHERS SAY INTERNET SHOULD BE INTRODUCED.WHAT IS YOUR OPINION DISCUSS



2. WHAT IS SPACE TOURISM.IS IT GOOD OR BAD


3. GIVE RELEVANT EXAMPLESPEOPLE CHANGE THEIR CAREER AND PLACE OF RESIDENCE FREQUNTLY THESE DAYS.WHAT ARE THE POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF IT?

QUESTIONS IN DECEMBER(DELHI)


1)STAGE1

ARE YOU WORKING
WHAT DO YOU DISLIKE ABOUT YOUR JOB
DO YOU READ BOOKS.HOW OFTEN?
HAVE YOU GIFTED A BOOK TO SOMEONE


STAGE2

THE PLACE WHERE YOU STUDIED OR WORKED
· WHERE WAS IT
· HOW DID YOU FEEL
· WHAT DID YOU LIKE OR DISLIKE ABOUT IT?

STAGE3

SHOULD BASIC REQIUREMENTS BE AVAILABLE IN SCHOOLS AND COLLEGES
IS CUTTING TREES GOOD FOR THE ENVIRONMENT
WHAT CAN GOVERNMENT DO TO STOP CUTTING OF TREES




2) STAGE1

WHAT IS YOUR NAME?
DESCRIBE YOUR HOMETOWN?
WHAT IS its MAIN ATTRACTION?
HOW HAS IT CHANGED FROM THE PAST?
TALK ABOUT A SHOP IN YOUR AREA?
WHAT TRHINGS DO YOU BUY THERE?
HOW HAS THE SHOP CHANGED FROM THE PAST?
WHAT IS THE ROLE OF TEACHERS IN YOUR LIFE?
ARE THE TEACHERS STRICT TODAY?




STAGE 2

DESCRIBE A PLACE WITH LOT OF WATER BODIES
WHAT IS IT

· WHERE IS IT SITUATED
· WHAT DID YOU ENJOY THERE
· WHY DID YOU LIKE IT


STAGE 3

WHAT IS THE NORMAL USE OF WATER IN DAILY LIFE?
WHAT IS YOUR OPINION ABOUT THE DEPLETION OF WATER?
IS IT POSSIBLE TO REDUCE WATER WASTAGE?
DIFFERENCE IN PAST AND PRESENT WATER USAGE?
TALK ABOUT WATER SPORTS?
WHAT IS YOUR OPINION ON INTRODUCTION OF WATER SPORTS IN SCHOOL?



3) STAGE1
DESCIBE YOUR HOMETOWN
WHAT IS THE SPECIALITY OF YOUR HOMETOWN
WHAT ARE THE PLACES OF INTERESTR IN YOUR HOMETOWN


STAGE 2
DESCRIBE A TEENAGER YOU KNOW

· WHO IS HE/SHE
· HOW DO YOU KNOW HIM/HER
· WHAT ARE THE SPECIAL QUALITIES YOU LIKE ABOUT HIM/HER


STAGE 3

WHAT SHOULD BE THE CORRECT AGE FOR TO GIVE RESPONSIBILITY TO ATEENAGER?
SHOULD THE TEENAGER BE GIVEN POCKET MONEY?
WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE GROWTH OF A TEENAGER?
WHY IS TEENAGE SPECIAL?